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What things should you never say to/ask a woman, and why?

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Masha Budrytė
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MSc Data and Society Alumna from The London School of Economics and Political Science; BA...  · 10 мар 2017

Some quick blurbs from my experience:

  1. Do not comment on her food/drink's calories: It's plain rude to discuss how many calories are present within a womxn's meal. Also, it is deeply linked to sexism and body shaming, which shouldn't have a place when conversing with someone.
  2. Don't mock the way she talks: The way she talks shouldn't matter – you should be paying attention to what she is saying. This is one of the rudest things someone can do to anyone, and it's very degrading. However, it's more common for womxn due to the heighten criticism of up-talking. 
  3. Don't tell her she needs make-up to look "nice": Make-up is not the key to success, and she certainly does not need to look "nice" for anyone but herself. Plus, some womxn prefer to go make-up free and feel confident! This shouldn't be a precursor for anyone to look nice. Men don't have the same standard, so stop pitting it against womxn.
MSc Media and Communications at LSE. Former Comparative Literature and Film studies BA at...  · 10 мар 2017
My Top-5:  1. Assume a woman wants to go out with you because she is single. In fact, not all single women are looking for relationships (surprise!) 2. Ask a woman why she is single/doesn’t have kids/decided to get married so early/has so many kids. First, it’s none of your business; second, these questions make any human being uncomfortable. 3. Say pretty much... Читать далее
Journalist and Postgraduate with LSE Media and Communications. University of Surrey Alum...  · 10 мар 2017
As a WOC/ BME my number one, eye-roll inducing question has to be: * Where are you REALLY from?  This question is annoying. I always tell people I am from London, as that is the truth. But, do not pry into a person's culture and heritage unless they want to share that with you. Do not repeat "but WHERE", because it will signify exoticism which is highly unappreciated by... Читать далее